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ADHD Counselling & Coaching Herne Bay | Jessica Shepherd

🧠✨ Why This Page Looks a Bit Different (and Why That’s a Good Thing!)

Welcome to a space designed with you in mind.

Did you know that over 65% of neurodivergent individualsβ€”especially those with ADHD and Autismβ€”are visual learners? That means we often understand and retain information better through images, layout, colour, and flow, rather than long blocks of text. Traditional websites can feel overwhelming, hard to navigate, or just plain exhausting. Not here.

This page is intentionally crafted to be inclusive, visually supportive, and neurodivergent-friendly. You'll notice:

  • βœ… Clear sections and headings
  • 🎨 Calming visuals and bold icons
  • 🧭 Easy navigation so you never feel lost
  • πŸ’¬ Simple, jargon-free language
  • πŸ’‘ Flexible options to book how it works for you

Whether you're here for ADHD counselling in Herne Bay, coaching, or you're exploring support for your neurodivergent child or teenβ€”you've found your people. This is a safe, non-clinical, human-first space. We believe therapy should feelaccessible before it even begins.

So take your time, scroll at your pace, and if it helpsβ€”grab a brew while you explore. You’re very welcome here. 🌈

ADHD coaching programmes:

🧭 How to Use This Page

This page is designed with neurodivergent brains in mind – visually supportive, straightforward, and easy to scroll!


πŸ’‘ Whether you’re an adult, teen, or parent – we’ve got you covered.

Here’s how it’s laid out πŸ‘‡


πŸ”Ή πŸ§‘β€πŸ’Ό ADHD Coaching for Adults
Practical support for adult life – work, relationships, routines, overwhelm.


πŸ”Ή πŸ§‘β€πŸŽ“ ADHD Coaching for Teenagers
Help with school pressure, emotions, focus, and friendships.


πŸ”Ή πŸ§’ ADHD Coaching for Children (Age 10+)
Support with learning, emotions, and building confidence – always involving parents too.


πŸ”Ή πŸ“ ADHD Assessments
For adults, teens & children – supporting your journey towards diagnosis with compassion and clarity.


πŸ”Ή 🎯 ADHD Counselling Programmes
Therapy that targets executive skills like time management, focus, and emotional regulation. Also includes:


– πŸ§‘β€πŸ€β€πŸ§‘ Parent counselling
– πŸ’ž Relationship support
– πŸ“š Long-term support plans


✨ You can scroll or jump to the section that feels most relevant to you.


Each section is clearly labelled and packed with info, tips, and visuals to help you feel seen, understood, and supported.


πŸ“… Ready to book?


Just scroll to the β€œBook Now” button at the bottom or head to the drop-down menu!


ADHD Coaching sessions:

🌟 ADHD Coaching for Adults

πŸ‘Ÿ ADHD Coaching for Teenagers

πŸ‘Ÿ ADHD Coaching for Teenagers

Real-world support for real ADHD brains


🎯 What’s the Point?


ADHD coaching helps adults:

  • Understand how their brain works
  • Build strategies that actually work
  • Feel more in control of life (yes, even Mondays)



🧩 What’s Included?

πŸ” Step 1: Understand & Set Goals


  • Friendly chat to explore your ADHD traits
  • Choose goals together – work, home, relationships, whatever matters to you


🧠 Step 2: Build Your Toolkit


  • Time management tips (no more 2am panic tidy!)
  • Organisation hacks for your brain style
  • Break down big goals into β€œdoable” chunks


πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’« Step 3: Emotional Support


  • Learn to manage overwhelm, anxiety, and impulsivity
  • Use mindfulness + stress tools that actually fit ADHD brains


🀝 Step 4: Regular Check-Ins


  • Stay accountable (without shame)
  • Celebrate small wins (because they’re big deals)
  • Adjust strategies if they stop working – it’s flexible!


πŸ§ͺ What Kind of Tools?


  • πŸŽ‰ Positive reinforcement (we hype your wins!)
  • 🧠 Behavioural strategies for focus and follow-through
  • πŸ›  Problem-solving tools for when life gets sticky


🎨 Tailored for YOU


There’s no β€œone-size-fits-all” here.
Sessions are built around your needs, your strengths, and your pace.


πŸ§‘β€βš•οΈ Teamwork if Needed


We can (with your consent) link in with:

  • Therapists
  • GPs
  • Workplace support

...to keep everything joined up and smooth.


βœ… Outcomes You Might See


  • Better focus and follow-through
  • Calmer mornings and fewer last-minute panics
  • More motivation (and fewer crashes)
  • Stronger boundaries, less guilt
  • Feeling more you


πŸ’¬ Final Thought


ADHD coaching isn’t about β€œfixing” you.
It’s about unlocking the way you work bestβ€”and building a life that supports it.
We don’t do shame here. We do support, solutions, and a lot of kindness.

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πŸ‘Ÿ ADHD Coaching for Teenagers

πŸ‘Ÿ ADHD Coaching for Teenagers

πŸ‘Ÿ ADHD Coaching for Teenagers

Real-life strategies for thriving through the teen years


🎯 What’s It For?


ADHD coaching helps teens:

  • Understand how their brain works
  • Stay on top of school, life and friendships
  • Build confidence and emotional tools for the real world


🧩 What Does It Include?


πŸ” Getting Started


  • Friendly assessment to learn strengths + struggles
  • Set personal goals (school, friends, life stuffβ€”whatever matters to them)


🧠 Build Your Teen Toolkit


  • Time Management: how to plan the week without meltdowns
  • Organisation: systems to keep on top of school, homework, and life
  • Study Skills: ADHD-friendly ways to revise, remember, and focus


πŸ’¬ Emotions + Friendships


  • Emotional tools: handle stress, anxiety, frustration
  • Social confidence: chat with mates, manage fallouts, feel heard


πŸ” Ongoing Support


  • Regular check-ins = built-in accountability
  • Safe space to talk about wins and wobbles
  • Teens take ownership (with your gentle support!)


πŸ›  What Kind of Tools?


  • 🧠 Self-reflection prompts that actually make sense
  • πŸŽ‰ Positive reinforcement – we notice every win
  • 🧩 Problem-solving: stuck on something? We untangle it together


✨ It’s Personalised


No cookie-cutter sessions here.
We tailor everything to the teen’s:


  • Learning style
  • Mood + energy
  • Challenges + interests


πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘§ Working With Parents + Teachers


  • Coaching works even better with joined-up support
  • We can loop in parents + schools (with permission)
  • You all get on the same pageβ€”less stress for everyone


βœ… What Teens Get From This


  • πŸŽ’ Better school organisation
  • ⏱ Time management that finally makes sense
  • 😌 Calmer emotions + fewer blow-ups
  • πŸ’¬ Stronger communication with friends and adults
  • πŸ’ͺ More confidence + self-belief


πŸ’¬ Final Thought


Teen years are toughβ€”ADHD makes them tougher.
Coaching offers non-judgy, honest support to help your teen feel seen, capable, and in control.
This is about building lifelong skills in a space where they actually feel safe and understood.

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🌈 ADHD Coaching for Children

πŸ‘Ÿ ADHD Coaching for Teenagers

🌈 ADHD Coaching for Children

Support for growing minds – with understanding, tools & fun built in


🧠 What Is It?


ADHD coaching helps children:

  • Understand their brains 🧩
  • Learn skills for school and home 🏠
  • Build confidence and emotional tools πŸ’ͺ
  • Improve friendships 🀝

It’s playful, practical and tailored to how they learn.


πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘§β€πŸ‘¦ Who's Involved?


It’s a team effort – coach, child, and often parents too.
Everyone’s voice matters. Everyone works together.
No pressure, no shame – just support.


🎯 What We Focus On


🧭 Assessment + Goals


  • We start with gentle discovery – learning what your child loves, struggles with, and how they think.
  • Then we set fun, realistic goals – whether it’s getting ready for school, handling big feelings, or remembering homework.


🧰 What Skills Do We Build?


πŸ•’ Time & Tasks


  • Use timers, visual schedules, and routines
  • Help with homework, transitions, and staying focused


πŸ“¦ Organisation


  • School bags, desks, digital tools – we make it ADHD-friendly
  • Step-by-step systems to reduce chaos


πŸ“š Learning Tools


  • Memorising, revising, reading β€” in ways that stick
  • Tailored to how your child learns


😀 Emotional Tools


  • Coping with frustration, overwhelm, anxiety
  • Learning what their feelings mean and how to handle them
  • Calming techniques and sensory-friendly strategies


πŸ—£οΈ Social Confidence


  • Friendships, turn-taking, reading social cues
  • Practise conversations, body language and boundaries


πŸ” How It Works


  • Regular sessions (fun, friendly, consistent)
  • Build trust and routine
  • Small steps, big progress
  • Progress tracked with child-friendly visuals + feedback


🎨 Tools & Activities


  • Games, drawing, movement
  • Story-building and visual aids
  • Positive reinforcement (we cheer for the little wins too!)
  • ADHD-aware activities that make learning feel doable


🀝 Parent + School Collaboration


  • Regular check-ins with parents
  • Optional school communication to join up support
  • You stay in the loop – without needing to do everything alone


🌟 What Changes?


With time, your child may:

  • Be more organised + independent
  • Feel less anxious + more in control
  • Improve focus at school
  • Have fewer meltdowns + better social skills
  • Show more confidence and pride in who they are


πŸ’¬ Why It Matters


Your child isn’t β€œbehind.”
They just learn differently – and that deserves the right kind of help.

ADHD coaching meets your child where they are, helps them discover their own tools, and gives you both more calm, clarity, and connection.


Email now

ADHD assessments for adults and children

🧠 ADHD Assessments for Adults, Teens and Children (6+)

Supportive. Respectful. Focused on you.


πŸ‘‹ Hi, I'm JessI’m a qualified ADHD specialist with experience in:


  • ADHD coaching
  • ADHD screening assessments
  • Workshops & psychoeducation
  • Family + school support


❗Important to Know

This is not a diagnosis service, but a supportive pre-assessment.


You’ll receive:


βœ… A detailed report
βœ… ACE / ACE+ framework used (internationally recognised)
βœ… A clear summary to take to NHS or private diagnosis routes
βœ… Follow-up support if needed


πŸ“… How It Works


  • πŸ’» Zoom video call (90 mins – 2 hours)


  • πŸ”Ž We explore:
    • Your current challenges
    • Your childhood experiences
    • Patterns in focus, energy, memory & more


  • 🧾 By the end, you’ll get:
    • A comprehensive report
    • Tailored conclusions
    • Optional next steps


πŸ” Optional Add-Ons


If helpful, I can:


  • βœ‰οΈ Speak with your GP
  • πŸ“š Contact schools / past educators
  • πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘§β€πŸ‘¦ Involve family to provide history
    All only with your permission.


πŸ‘οΈβ€πŸ—¨οΈ You Stay in Control


  • You don’t need to have your camera on your face β€” you can turn off self-view if that’s more comfortable
  • You can ask questions any time
  • There’s no pressure, just a calm, safe chat


πŸ’› My Approach


  • Neurodivergent-affirming
  • Compassionate, not clinical
  • Trauma-aware
  • No rushing or judgment
  • Lots of care + clarity


πŸ“Œ Booking


πŸ‘‰ To book, send an email to email@jessicashepherdcounselling.com or follow the contact me page. I respond to each enquiry personally, so please allow 48 hours for a response. 


Need help deciding? Message me first β€” I’m happy to chat πŸ’¬



🧠 ADHD Counselling Programmes


For Adults, Teens, Children (10+), Families, Parents & Couples


πŸ” What Is ADHD Counselling?


ADHD counselling helps you build executive functioning skills β€” the mental toolkit that supports focus, motivation, memory, emotional regulation, and decision-making.

Whether you're:


  • An adult navigating daily overwhelm
  • A teen struggling with focus and friendships
  • A parent wanting to better support your child
  • A couple facing communication breakdowns


There’s a programme tailored for you.


🧰 Executive Skills We Target


Think of these like your brain’s control centre:


🧨 Response Inhibition – The ability to pause and think before acting, helping to avoid impulsive decisions.
🧠 Working Memory – Holding and using information while doing tasks; remembering instructions or what you came into the room for.
❀️ Emotional Control – Managing strong feelings like frustration, anxiety, or excitement to stay on track.
πŸ” Flexibility – Being able to adapt when things change, plans shift, or unexpected challenges come up.
🎯 Sustained Attention – Staying focused on something (even if it's boring!) without drifting off or jumping to another task.
🚦 Task Initiation – Getting started without procrastinating or freezing up β€” even on things you don’t want to do.
πŸ—ΊοΈ Planning & Prioritising – Figuring out how to tackle goals step by step, and knowing what’s most important right now.
πŸ“¦ Organisation – Keeping track of things β€” whether it’s your thoughts, schedule, workspace, or digital files.
⏰ Time Management – Understanding time, using it wisely, and meeting deadlines without last-minute chaos.
πŸ₯… Goal-Directed Persistence – Sticking with a task or goal until it’s done, even when distractions or obstacles show up.
πŸͺž Metacognition – Being aware of how you think and problem-solve β€” reflecting on what’s working (or not).
πŸ’₯ Stress Tolerance – Staying grounded in high-pressure or unpredictable situations, without burning out.


πŸ—“οΈ How Sessions Work


πŸ”„ You choose the pace β€” weekly, bi-weekly, or flexibly based on what works for you.

πŸ’¬ We:

  • Identify where you’re stuck
  • Set achievable goals
  • Learn + repeat new strategies
  • Reinforce those until they stick


πŸ•°οΈ Real Talk: Lasting change takes time.
We recommend 6+ months for meaningful growth β€” especially for rewiring habits and routines.


πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘§ Who Can Access This?


βœ… Adults with ADHD
βœ… Teenagers
βœ… Children (age 10+)
βœ… Parents of ADHD kids
βœ… Couples navigating ADHD dynamics


⚠️ Important: Counselling works best when the individual wants to engage. If a child isn’t ready, we’ll explore alternatives or pause β€” and I’ll keep you in the loop.


πŸ‘ͺ Parent Counselling


You're not alone. Learn how to:

  • Support your child emotionally + practically
  • Set helpful boundaries
  • Build skills that stick
    πŸ—“οΈ Weekly or bi-weekly


πŸ’‘ Relationship Counselling


ADHD can affect communication, memory, and emotional responses. Together, we’ll:

  • Explore what ADHD means for your relationship
  • Set shared goals
  • Improve understanding, connection + empathy


πŸ’‘ β€œAm I Too Old to Change?”


Nope. That’s a myth.

Your brain can learn and adapt at any age β€” that’s called neuroplasticity.
If you're ready to grow, it's 100% possible. Let’s work with your brain, not against it.

🧠 Growth mindset = game-changer.


βœ… Services Offered


  • ADHD Counselling
  • ADHD Coaching
  • ADHD Pre-Assessments
  • Parent Support
  • Teen & Child Counselling
  • Relationship Support


πŸ“… Ready to Book?


Head to the Bookings page to schedule your first session.
Still unsure? Drop me a message β€” I’ll guide you through it step by step.


  • Based in Herne Bay, Kent
  • Serving families across Kent
  • Face-to-face sessions in Herne Bay


Explaining ADHD to your child

I recommend checking out this informative YouTube video that explains ADHD to children.

ADHD therapy service, ADHD assessments

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Frequently Asked Questions

For any unanswered questions, please contact us at email@jessicashepherdcounselling.com. 

Children aged 6 and above can be assessed for ADHD, extending up to adulthood.


The total cost for the assessment is Β£100, which includes the assessment meeting and the provision of assessment results.


This assessment can be conducted either face-to-face or via Zoom.

The duration of the assessment will range from 90 minutes to 2 hours, with breaks provided as needed. I will utilise an assessment form known as ACE+. During this assessment, you will be asked questions regarding both current symptoms and historical symptoms. 

Following the assessment, I will compile the results and provide you with a summary based on the findings. Please note that this assessment is not a diagnosis; rather, it serves to help you understand whether the symptoms you are experiencing may be related to ADHD or potentially attributable to other factors.


It is helpful to prepare the following information prior to your assessment:

  1. Previous Diagnoses and Medications: Please note any prior diagnoses and the medications you are currently taking. This includes any childhood medical conditions that may be related to ADHD.
  2. Childhood Trauma: Information regarding any childhood trauma is important, such as premature birth, low birth weight, head injuries resulting in loss of consciousness, maternal smoking or substance misuse during pregnancy, and birth-related trauma (e.g., nuchal cord).
  3. Previous Assessments: If you have previously undergone assessments for ADHD or cognitive abilities, please bring along the results if possible.
  4. Family Medical History: It is important to consider your family medical history, particularly concerning neurodevelopmental conditions, learning difficulties, or psychiatric disorders.
  5. Childhood Symptoms: If possible, it would be beneficial to speak with your parents prior to the assessment to discuss your behaviour at school and home during childhood. Consider whether you exhibited any signs of ADHD that may not have been recognised at the time but have become clearer now. Did your school reports comment on your behaviour? Did you encounter disciplinary issues during your teenage years? Gathering this information will be advantageous for your assessment.


The assessment will facilitate a referral to NHS services for formal diagnosis and medication management.


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